[He tries to choose his words carefully. He wants to explain how he feels about her actions, but he doesn't want her to close off from him, either.]

You have done things I do not approve of. Yet, I have been in situations where hopelessness and desperation could drive any man... or woman to desperate actions. A tired, despairing mind can convince itself that many things, however terrible, are necessary. That does not mean that they cannot change their path, however hard that would be.